DBW Special ❤️: This letter is a gift! Read it with people you love or by yourself.
Written by Dear Black Woman Jasmine K. Mack
“This letter is a gift! Read it with people you love or by yourself. Either way, enjoy!”
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Hello Gorgeous Goddess! Yes, I’m talking to you Queen. Yes, You sexy thang you. Yes, You smart thang you! Mmmmmmhmmmm, you Queen make my heart leap out of my chest. I’m falling so deeply in love with you and the dynamic, phenomenal, amazing, powerful, unstoppable, unapologetic woman you are becoming.
Now, let’s speak some affirmations into the different areas of your life because you deserve it all. You deserve to be happy in every way. Black woman, be everything you were created to be!
1 - THE PHYSICAL DIMENSION
Honey, let me tell you something. Your body is beautiful just that way it is. You were given that exact body, every inch, every curve or lack of one, every stretch mark, every scar, every pore is uniquely yours; you alone know how to take care of it, that’s why you have YOUR body. Strut that stuff girl, shake dat ass, throw dat ass in a circle!
I love my body. She is strong. She is powerful. She is healthy. I will do my best to take care of my body. I will do my best to appreciate my body in all stages of my life. I will do my best to listen to my body and feed it what it needs for optimal function and vitality. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed when I miss some of the goals I have set for my body. I love my body.
And another thing, your vagina is amazing too. Yeah, Imma talk about her AND Imma talk about sex because we don’t talk about it enough. Imma say it again because I don’t think you heard me the first time.
Imma talk about her AND Imma talk about sex because we don’t talk about it enough. Your Yoni, love her, cherish her; she is stronger than you think. From her life comes. AND you fucking deserve to have spine tingling pleasure and back breaking, leg shaking orgasms every day (or how ever often you feel you need. No judgment if you not getting your freaky freak on every single day. It be them days sometimes.)
I love my vagina. She is strong. She is powerful. She is healthy. I will do my best to take care of my vagina. I will do my best to pleasure my yoni by myself. I will do my best to allow a caring, supportive lover to pleasure her as well. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed for seeking sexual pleasure. I love my vagina.
2 - THE EMOTIONAL DIMENSION
Your emotional intelligence is off the charts baby! You are so in tune with your emotions. You deserve to feel ALL of the emotions available to you whether, happy, sad, and even angry. Don’t allow them motherfuckers to make you feel some type of way about being “an angry black women”. Bitch, I might be! and so fucking what if I am. I’m so proud of you for practicing self care and stress management and mediation. Yassssss!
I love my emotions. They are dynamic. They are powerful. They are healthy. I will do my best to healthily express my emotions and communicate them to others. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed for having emotions. I love my emotions.
3 - THE INTELLECTUAL DIMENSION
Ohhhh you so intelligent. You so smart. You have the perfect balance of book smarts AND street smarts. Point blank period. Nuff said.
I love my intellect. It is dynamic. It is powerful. It is healthy. I will do my best to always be a learner and expand the borders of my mind through new experiences. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed for having intelligence. I love my intellect.
4 - THE SOCIAL DIMENSION
Honey, do you realize the community that surrounds you? You have sisters, brothers, family, friends, romantic partner(s) but most importantly you have your ancestors with you and within you, each and every day. You are not alone. You might feel lonely at times and that is normal to feel but sis you are NEVER alone.
I love my circle of influence, my people. They are dynamic. They are powerful. They are healthy. I will do my best to be surrounded by supportive, loving people. I will do my best to remove the toxic ones from my circle. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed for setting boundaries with my people. I love my circle of influence, my people.
5 - THE SPIRITUAL DIMENSION
You are a goddess. You are light personified. You are divine. You are so in tune with the universe that surrounds you. Your intuition is always on fleek.
I love my soul and spirit. She is Divine. She is Dynamic. She is Powerful. They are Divine. They are Dynamic. They are Powerful. I will do my absolute best to protect my spiritual center and to feed it daily. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed for caring for my spiritual center. I love my soul and spirit.
6 - THE ENVIRONMENTAL DIMENSION
The space you have is of the utmost importance. You deserve to have a sanctuary. You deserve to create your space however the fuck you want to create it! Put up that painting, burn that incense, ring that bell, play those chimes, lay those blankets, paint those walls, water them plants, lay them crystals around. Your space is your space is your space is your space.
I love my environment, my space. It is dynamic. It is peaceful. It is heavenly. I will do my best to create a space that express exactly who I am. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed for creating MY space where I can grow in, heal in and feel protected. I love my environment, my space.
7 - THE OCCUPATIONAL DIMENSION
Money. Cheddar. Green backs. Benjamins baby! You deserve to have a career that maximizes your unique skill set and gifts honey. You deserve to have coworkers AND leadership that appreciates that work that you do and if they don’t wanna act right and respect that goddess that is gracing their presence, Fuck em. Fuck em. Fuck em. No more being underemployed. No more! No more being underpaid. Fuck that, bitch better have my money. I love the way you talk to me, my cash machine, since that check came in! Yassss! Blessings on blessings on blessings. You will be so fucking blessed it will seep off and blessed all those that surround. Yasssss your circle of people will be blessed too!
I love my career. It is dynamic. It is fulfilling. It pays me quite well and then some. I will do my best to utilize my skills, gifts and talents in my career. I will do my best to manage that finances I am blessed to receive. I WILL NOT feel guilty or ashamed for negotiating my proper paycheck.
Rest. Rest. Breathe. Relax. Release. Inhale. Exhale. Rest. Rest.
Woo! Queen, don’t you feel good speaking that positivity into your life. Yassssss! Affirm that shit every single motherfucking day!
Now go take over the world already. What the fuck you waiting on? Like seriously what the fuck you waiting on? CHARRRRRRRRRRRRGE!